If you like them enough to continue, wait for the perfect timing and then spring a surprise digit up their ass and see how he likes it. She'd flex her butt cheeks and break my finger otherwise Once you feel the finger, just move it away if it doesn't float your boat. I hear what everyone is saying about talking about boundaries in advance, and obviously open communication is a good thing.
It sounds like the two guys in question decided to actually experiment instead of asking first, trusting that you would say "um, I don't like that". This is a pleasurable spot for many people. Isn't pre-sexy murmuring about "what I'd like to do" part of what is fun about sex? Like if my boyfriend never tried anything new, our sex life would be pretty boring. But I would find it kind of weird if a guy was like 'Can I put my finger in your ass? Porn teaches us that women really dig anal, even if they didn't know it beforehand. Usually it's best to talk these things over with your partner. This was pretty much my thought, too. Which is an approach. Sexual consent must be explicit, which means that both people say that they really want to have sex. You're just guessing and seeing what works. In my opinion that is much better than bringing out a laundry list in advance. But isn't spontaneity part of what is fun about sex? But yes, some women do like it. I don't understand how this is that complicated. If they do it anyway, you know they don't respect your boundaries and you can go ahead and stop sleeping with them. Be happy they didn't want to test your gag reflex. If it doesn't work for you, say so. Here's some more info that might help. A lot of sex is exploration, physical communication because while a guy may know the basics, he can't possibly know all the intricacies of what gets you off in particular. Think about whether you're really ready to have sex. So it goes something like this: I'd say just chalk it up to experimentation on their part - but if you don't like it, say so. Asking anyone else, especially random strangers on the internet, is just poking around in the dark. Or is there something behind it:
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