If you want your girlfriend to have sex with you, then you should treat her like a lady, not just like someone you want to hook up with. Reply Hunter on December 27, Excellent article Nick, it pretty much sums up my preferred approach in such a situation, and in making things so relaxed for her it also releases some of the sexual pressure you might be having yourself! If she wants to have sex and you have to run out to the drugstore for some condoms, this may make your first sexual experience fall flat. Enjoy the experience for how far it goes. I agree with your friend and I actually wrote about asking women what they want:
Running your hands through her hair. So what was it that made you stop? If you want your girl to have sex with you, then you have to set the mood. Make eye contact when you talk to her. This doesn't have to be elaborate or corny -- just say, "Are you sure you're ready? Maybe you were a natural with the ladies and swept women off their feet at first glance. More men really need to understand that concept. You make many fine points. Ask her about her friendships, her childhood, and her favorite experiences. I am going to sleep with my girlfriend. Having sex with her. The only thing you will get with that silly strip-down move is a cold. Make sure to compliment her to let her know how great she looks or how special she is. I find it shameful for me to let a lady walk away without having experienced any sort of pleasure with me. But how do you do that? After all, not only did you get her to go out with you, but to stick around as well! But i have to admit i have bigger trouble bringing women up to that point, picking them up, and not so much over this point. She'll never have sex with you if she thinks you're talking to or checking out other women, or even hanging out with other women. The first time with anyone is always awkward and nerve racking. Help Player, how can I convince these women to take things a step further and have sex with me? Dan on December 24, I love how your advice is always founded on respect, Nick. Do be seductive and use the right words. Though you don't have to be rude to or ignore other women, you should have a laser-sharp focus on your girlfriend so she knows that you will always be there for her, especially after you start having sex. If you really want to treat your lady well, then you have to be able to have an idea about whether or not she's ready for sex. If she changes her mind from yes to no, or asks you to stop during the act, do so immediately. My friend said to me to ask a woman what she wants and likes. There's a difference between being loyal and being possessive and smothering your girlfriend with affection.
That move will make her single to be the one who takes for more. It's not at all what she's all to. In other days, no trying to facilitate her to good with you, but rather vogue her or that she has to facilitate you. But how do you do that. Forr a few widows forward, go back to less superstar touching, and then question escalating.