Written by lunaKM As a point of personal opinion, I'd like to define the differences between very basic terms so that there is no confusion as to who I am referring to when I mention either of these terms. Becoming a slave is re-identifying yourself, not just a progression but an intensification of submission. Polarity is an important factor in creating sexual attraction.
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